Guilt, anger, and suffering can lead to harmful, destructive thoughts that may hinder us from recognizing moments of great blessing in our lives. We need to be sure to forgive ourselves, as well as those around us, just as God has forgiven us. This will change a negative mindset into a mind set on God.

For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, says the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts. Isaiah 55:8-9 (AMPC)